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by kathleen howe
 
It seems like all my memories revolve around the emotional reasons I was - & still am although not actively - a night eater. I say that I still am because although I've stopped actively eating at night, the urge still lingers inside my brain, waiting for my weakest moments, my most crisis filled days, you know - the one day that you just don't know how to deal with it. It's painful, more painful than you ever thought you'd encounter. Things just keep stock piling up... getting worse.. there's never a break from it all.... and then there's the night eating...

Some people believe once they've licked it, it won't come back. Unfortunately, not true, it can come back. It can come back with a vengence. I've been there and done it. Things just happen. Things that are too horrible to describe. Divorces, cheating husbands, cheating husbands cheating with cheating best friends, custody fights, parental alienation, abusive situations, standing outside locked out of your own home... locked out of your own life.... totally helpless against the raging world.  yes... i know... i've been there...

just when you think it can't get any worse, you step on the scale... it gets worse....
 
Usually the night eater has a poor self image anyway....  mostly the night eater has struggled with weight gain over an entire lifetime. It seems like just smelling food puts on weight, but oh, how we love to eat. It's comforting, kinda...
 
I have to tell you, part of removing yourself from night eating is beginning to wake up with a food hangover. Identifying with a drunk is not my idea of great self esteem. Self esteem? I've ignored what self esteem could be for years. Like I said earlier, I still have the urges and I still haven't gained full control of my diet. Just because I don't eat at night anymore doesn't mean I lost all the weight and I eat healthy now.
 
I've gained some ground though. I don't want to seem totally negative. I'm happy with the progress I've made. I don't eat at night now. I am ever mindful of each choice I make when I eat. I've improved. Life has a funny way though of throwing in some extra twists and turns along the way. Mine was a broken leg. A severely broken leg that wouldn't heal and left me in a wheel chair - unactive for almost two years. bummer.

one of my favorite childhood pictures...

I hate to sound negative or even sarcastic, but I'm still in recovery and I just had a visit from my mother. I've lived in Dayton, Ohio for ten years and she just visited me for the second time. We've always lived at least 2000 miles away from each other. I'm what you call the family's "black sheep." My brother even kicked me out of his house, pregnant with a toddler on my hip because I was eating his leftovers all night and his wife didn't like that.
 
She uprooted herself to move from Florida to Wyoming to live with my sister. That was a shock announcement. I knew she was unnerved by the hurricanes last season, but I just couldn't believe it when my socialite mother decided to move to a town of just 250 people, 45 miles south of Jackson Hole. I still can't believe it.  While she was here, she left me some pictures. Like I said earlier, my memories all seem to revolve around the emotional reasons for my night eating. The urge is pounding at my door.
 
Both of my mother's parents died in the last five years. She had taken care of them in their last days. It was hard on her. I believe it was really hard on her, but I admire her for being there for them. I wish I had lived closer to them so I could have helped. Her parents were very close to me. The pictures she left me were some that I had been asking for for about ten years. No one seemed to know where they were. I have them now, but oh, the heartache surrounding them.
 
I look at myself in those pictures and wonder, how I ever became who I am today. Another urge triggering afternoon during my mother's visit I learned some valuable information concerning my past. My mother has always been secretive. The queen of the "silent treatment." I had no clue as to what had happened between her and my father over the years they were married to cause them so much unhappiness and even divorce. My father had beaten my mother into an unrecognizable form, hidden behind the Boston Globe, I just didn't know why it all happened.

What a sweet little girl all dressed up in her Polly Flinders white dress with the little red hearts across the top... black and freshly polished with vaseline, patent leather shoes and those brown eyes... so dark, so deep, so innocent ....
 
That was me. I want to be that little girl again sometimes and start my life all over. The memories get me going. I not only had night eating syndrome, I'm also recovering from post traumatic stress disorder and depression. It all comes together sometimes. Who would of thought that this beautiful little girl would someday wake up in the middle of the night, gorging herself on banana bread, cookies, bread and butter, just anything she could get her fat little hands around.... night after night, hating herself every morning..... hating herself even more in the afternoon, just knowing that night time was upon her... who would of thought?

and then who would of thought?

and then who would of thought? that my first born child would finally fess up and tell me in the twenty-seventh year of her life that she, too, has had problems with night eating..... who would of thought?
 
memories.... pictures.... reminders of pain, heartache and emotional distress.... they will never go away... the urge will never go away... and so here we are night eaters...
 
here we are....  we have to be vigilent, mindful and stay on top of this syndrome. we can never give up.... we just keep trying, keep plugging along and we never give up... we focus on "relaxation breathing" and "staying in the bed" at night. stop thinking about the eating....
 
think about learning about sleep hygeine, healthy eating habits, exercise, a healthy sense of self esteem, relaxation, enjoying life and most of all.... being useful .... helping others in some way. finding our niche so to speak, is the new mission of your days. finding what you really like to do... something you're good at.... to help others by volunteering some effort, some time, a piece of your heart and believe me... you'll kick that damn night eating habit.  you will....

i have seven children, five i gave birth to and 2 step daughters. i have three dogs and a husband. i have a house and a bed to sleep in. i have a computer and i choose to help others learn about what i have already experienced and educated myself about...  i have a good life.
 
mental health issues, lifestyle issues, night eating, emotions & feelings and recovering from whatever life has dealt us... it's been hard, very hard.... but i'm feeling better.... i know you can too....
 
i love hearing from you all... i thank everyone that's taken the time to write. i just hope that somehow you can find the strength to hang in there and beat night eating..... i'm always here for you... 24 hours a day.... seven days a week....
 
signing off for now....
 
kathleen

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Night Eating Syndrome

by kathleen howe

 

I know about Night Eating Syndrome. I know what it's like to get up in the middle of the night - every night - to march in a zombie-like trance to my kitchen in methodical searches for the "white flour/white sugar" treasures in my pantry. I know what it's like to eat, continually chewing, biting, chewing, and biting until everything is gone. I know what it's like to step on the crumbs, some very big crumbs, on the floor as I stand up from where I've seated myself to "chow" and let more crumbs fall upon the floor to join the others. I've never tried to pick up those crumbs and eat them... although; if I had thought of it I might have done it.

 

No concept of how much food I've just ingested registers in my mind. Perhaps I'll go to the bathroom, but generally "not," as I proceed one foot in front of the other, back to the bed, as if programmed to complete each step fully before taking the next, I crawl into bed and pull the covers over me in one smooth move as I did when I emerged, sitting up and throwing back the covers in one svelte move. I sleep, but dream immediately.

 

Within an hour I repeat the entire transaction. Nothing varies except where I leave my crumbs. That varies according to the intensity of my exhaustion. I may awake with the crumbs still in my mouth because I ate in my bed lying down while I was falling back asleep. Or... the crumbs could be found on my night table or pillowcase. Sometimes candy wrappers are found in my bed, beneath my covers, sometimes still in my grasp. And then again, I'm asleep and dreaming immediately. I have no normal sleep pattern.

 

In the daytime my essence of being drowns in the daytime recognition of what was eaten the night before. There is shame, guilt, frustration, hurt, searing pain in my heart, and DISGUST abounds in capital letters. The disgust seems to cling to every bit of your being, like a thin layer of translucent slime. It's always there and it exudes the mouth watering feeling of intense nausea like right before you vomit.

 

Being a night eater always means being so totally out of control that you can't do anything but comply. The demons hidden deep within are calling to you but you're in denial, you rationalize, you float in self pity, some blame and burst into a daily self destructive description of their own despicable ways. Either way, the night eater is always a failure of some proportions and always unhappy with what they see in the mirror, what they compel the scale to stop on and who they are. They hate themselves more than anyone could ever hate anyone.

 

I believe it all stems from early childhood trauma, relationship dysfunction throughout life, continual unresolved traumas combined with depression and maybe even another anxiety disorder. Unresolved emotions and feelings are roiling within as one tries to keep away from food all day long to make up for the night time scourge of all sweets, treats and no-no's that lie for someone else in the kitchen. It's those poor kids or a slim spouse that likes that occasional snack to always be there when they're ready for it... but you eat them all... the guilt begins, the poor kids, the jealousy over the normal eating spouse... it never stops.

 

Each negative factor feeds the next. Exhaustion feeds it all. It's the fuel that keeps the fires burning within the night eater. There is no energy for positivity and hope. There's no choice for someone who is so sleep deprived that they've resorted to naps in the daytime because they can't stay awake no matter where they are.

 

I've been a night eater with insomnia and a night eater with narcolepsy. I believe our inability to cope with anything begins to meld with our sleep deprivation until our mind resorts to attacking the night eater at the brains weakest moments - when it's time to sleep. The brain doesn't get it's time to go through normal sleep cycles. The brain doesn't get it's time to do its business with our file system of memories. Our brain doesn't have time to re-evaluate what's needed for personal protection of the self, or what chemicals may need re-stocking for optimal performance.

 

Many with night eating syndrome experience restless leg syndrome, sleep apnea and other sleep disorders. I, myself experience increasingly unbearable sleep apnea as my weight climbed and restless leg syndrome depending upon my anxiety levels in the daytime. These factors all revolved around the symptoms of night eating and the increasing volume of nightly awakenings.

 

There is hope no matter what you believe about this syndrome. It's terribly difficult to achieve control, but it's possible. I have tried to compare recovery from night eating syndrome to being in a mine that has caved in. You're at the bottom, working up through the muck and mire of your life. You must tackle issue after issue until you've controlled as many factors as possible. You must make the first meaningful commitment of your life for your own sake and for your own well being.

 

You MUST first study the word commitment and truly realize the meaning of the word. You can't quit. You must learn about "positive thinking" and "living in the present moment." You must arm yourself with the tools that are available to you - free - at no cost - but sweat equity and hard work. You can never consider quitting. You must study the word "determination." You can continue night eating, and you will continue night eating, but you must arm yourself with knowledge, understanding and the most serious commitment you will ever make in your life. There are no other options but to continue.

 

You must learn something new everyday about yourself. You must learn something new everyday about mental health, lifestyle factors, emotions, feelings and the enormous wealth of tools there are out there for you to battle against the night eating urge. You must become "aware and mindful." You must become "grateful." You must learn about yourself and love yourself - or at least try to. You must learn relaxation breathing and relaxation techniques. You can never say, "I can't do that." or "That never works for me." You must "make it work" for you.

 

You must learn about your past, understand where you developed your belief system, and learn about how the brain develops and how you think. You must learn about attitudes and setting goals and making plans to achieve those goals. You must do these things because if you don't, you will fail. If you fail, you will begin to live in the night eating cycle again. With each thing you learn you are tearing down part of the cycle, but if you quit, you go back to "go" and you don't collect $200 or even get to sit in jail.

 

Lastly, you must find your niche in helping others. You must find your passion. You must work daily for others, forgetting yourself long enough to not think about guilt, shame or how disgusting you are. The more you help others, the more you will replace the guilt with confidence. The more you help others, the more you will smile instead of crying tears of frustration. The more you help others the more you will be loved and be able to love yourself for doing something that is good, positive and something that helped someone. You've done something worthwhile, which makes you feel that you are actually good for something.

 

I believe that many night eaters can't do it because they don't want to quit hating themselves. It's frustrating being the moderator of a support group for night eaters who are actively night eating, when you've stopped night eating. It's the difference between night and day. It's the difference between hate and love. You must make the choice. Many boomers, baby boomers that is, have never known about choices. I was raised not being able to express or experience emotions and feelings. I was always inadequate. I never did what my parents wanted me to do to cast the appearance of the American family girl.

 

My body didn't fit my mother's expectations. My hair wasn't the right color. I was taught to clean house and take care of kids. I was encouraged to learn how to cook and how to eat all the cookies and goodies I made so no one else would eat them and gain weight. My father was absent and when he finally touched down at "ground control" he was drinking and self absorbed. I was the everyday American Mannequin of a daughter. I did what I wanted to do and no one cared what it was. No matter how much I acted out negatively, it wasn't noticed.

 

Night eaters need support. Find yourself a solid support system or two or three. Most of all know this.... You will not find a "quit night eating" pill or treatment. You will have to do all of the above to get beneath the control of that crazy night eating URGE. You must grow big enough inside of yourself that you have all the power back. You must retain your power and control and use it to keep yourself safe.

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welcome to night eating!
 
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If you haven't visited the homepage, you're missing out on some important info, so I'll just give you a "heads up" here!
 
You've reached "night eating," part of the emotional feelings network of sites. If you scroll down to the footer on this page, you'll see the complete listing of all the sites in the network!
 
All of the sites in the emotional feelings network of sites are linked together thru a very complete network of underlined link words. Anytime you see an underlined link word, if you should be interested in more information concerning that word, simply click on it & a new browser window will appear. The page that opens up will give you an entire page filled with information concerning the word of your interest.
 
the emotional feelings network of sites was designed like this because as an ex-night eater, I was also faced with many other life dysfunctions, mental illness I was unaware of, domestic violence, a lack of any positive self esteem & so much more....
 
As I began my recovery, I began to slowly discover how all of the subjects contained within the emotional feelings network of sites are connected to each other. Soon I also discovered that there's power in educating yourself about it all.
 
As you gain power thru your newly acquired knowledge, you begin to regain a sense of control. As you begin to feel better, you become stronger & you're more able to begin your own journey thru recovery & personal growth. Once you begin, you will see how the subjects contained within this network of sites really is... all pertinent information for you - as a night eater!
 
visit the homepage for a better understanding of what's contained within the emotional feelings network of sites!
 
thanks for stopping by.... i hope that something within the network will be of use to you today....
 
kathleen

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posted 5/28/07

Addiction switching: Quit smoking, but binge?

Many addicts give up one bad habit & pick up another one. Weight-loss expert Madelyn Fernstrom has advice on changing your lifestyle – for good

On this segment of “Today’s Health,” we look at the phenomenon of switching addictions. That’s when someone who is trying to give up one addiction picks up another to fill the void. Madelyn Fernstrom, a show contributor and director of the Weight Management Center at the University of Pittsburgh, was invited on “Today” to tell us why so many of us replace one bad habit with another.

Addictions come in many forms - alcoholism, smoking, overeating, etc. - but they have much in common. For instance, they can help addicts manage stress or give them a sense that they have control over their lives. So when someone manages to overcome one addiction, they often pick up another. Sometimes people are considered to have addictive personalities, but for most addicts drugs, cigarettes, or food are simply crutches to deal with stress & other issues.

Evidence suggests there are overlapping circuits in the brain that relate to pleasure seeking & relief from anxiety.

Of course, we can’t use our biology as an excuse to say, “Well, it’s my personality & I have no control.” While there may be biological tendencies to have an addiction, you can overcome drinking, smoking & overeating, if you take a step back & get some personal insight into your behavior.

And when you plan to give up one addiction, be prepared to make some lifestyle changes, so you don’t find yourself dealing with another addiction.

In fact, addicts worry about switching addictions. Many smokers are reluctant to quit, because they’re afraid that they’ll eat more & gain weight.

And their fear is warranted. Many times smokers will find themselves substituting smoking - an oral behavior - with eating - another one. Smoking also stimulates metabolism. So even if you don’t eat more, you’ll put on extra pounds, if you don’t increase your physical activities.

The best way to avoid gaining weight is to change your lifestyle one or two months before you expect to quit.

The first step to overcome any addiction is facing the fact that you have one & that you need a long-term strategy to deal with it. A support group, such as Alcoholics Anonymous or Overeaters Anonymous, can be helpful, if you’re comfortable in group settings.

If not, some have success overcoming an addiction if they do it with someone else who is battling the same problem. But don’t pair up with someone with a different addiction. This can cause you to switch to the other person’s addictions.

So smokers should pair up with smokers, e.g. If you don’t have someone with whom you can buddy up, you may need one-on-one counseling with a close friend, a family member, or even a therapist.

Of course, overeaters have a harder time kicking their addiction, because, in a sense, we're all food addicts - we have to eat. And you can’t simply stop eating to overcome your food addiction. Overeaters often need professional help to them identify the factors that lead to their addiction to food.

While there aren’t any prescription medications to help people with their food cravings, there are some to help addicts with their need for nicotine or alcohol.

Buproprion, sold under the brand names Wellbutrin & Zyban, can help smokers & alcoholics with their cravings & they can sometimes reduce their cravings for food. A newer smoking cessation prescription medication, Chantix, helps smokers combat the psychological dependence on cigarettes.

If you’ve tried to stop smoking and have used nicotine gum, patches & other over-the-counter anti-smoking aids & nothing has worked, call your doctor. You may need a prescription drug to help you quit.

Smokers need to remember that smoking should be the first addiction to go. Then they can deal with overeating or other addictions later on. So stop smoking, even if it means that you gain 20 pounds. Here are fix tips for ex-smokers who don’t want to gain weight:

  • Think before you eat
  • Keep your mouth busy with low-calorie food & drinks
  • Increase your daily physical activities
  • Seek professional help, if needed

Madelyn Fernstrom is the director of the Weight Management Center at the University of Pittsburgh. For more information on the center, go to http://weightloss.upmc.com/.

© 2007 MSNBC Interactive source: click here

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excerpt: Addiction and Weight Loss Surgery: A Social Worker's Perspective

Substituting One Addiction  for Another

Fiona simply switched one addiction for another. It's not uncommon for a person who gives up one addictive behavior to pick up another addictive behavior. Fiona had quit using food as a soothing substance in her life. The alcohol came in and filled that void.

Switching addictions is also demonstrated when a person develops an unhealthy relationship with eating and exercise following weight loss.

Exercise can become a way to compensate for overeating, and can turn into what is called exercise bulimia. It's not bad to exercise as part of a plan to control one's weight. But if the overeating becomes excessive, and then is replaced by excessive exercise -- that's a problem. Your physical health can actually be threatened -- not to mention your peace of mind.

The other common addiction people switch to is spending. Many weight loss surgery patients get such a kick out of shopping for new clothes that they get a little carried away – and then they get hooked. Having been so burdened by obesity in the past, weight loss surgery patients commonly begin to leave the house more, because they’re now physically able to, and they shop more frequently. Shopping can morph into a mood-changing activity, and hence, an addiction.

What Can People Do?

Several steps can be taken to address the experience of switching addictions: 

  • Identify your addiction(s), both old and potential new ones, and the extent to which it is (they are) ruling your life.

  • Educate yourself about a particular addiction by doing research and talking to professionals who have knowledge and experience in that area.

  • Seek out a knowledgeable therapist if you are unable to control your addictive behavior on your own.

  • Join a support group that addresses your specific addiction, such as overeaters anonymous, alcoholics anonymous, debtors anonymous, etc.

Remember, addictions are very common and nothing to be ashamed of. But, they are hard to get rid of in isolation. Get help if you are struggling. And keep in mind any addictions left untreated absolutely have a potential to take over your life.

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august 10th, 2005
 
some insight...
hi! the article posted immediately below is the closest descrition to my night eating habits that I have found yet. It's also the closet description to what I believe is the cause of night eating habits.
 
while i truly believe that night eating is a habit, formed thru a person's need to cope with negative factors in life, I believe that it's uniquely individualized for each person experiencing the syndrome. feelings & emotions are behind it all, those that we have "stuffed" or "buried" somewhere along the path of our lives or presently being stuffed or ignored because of our lack of knowledge of how to cope with something in our lives.
 
we all hold false beliefs, misconceptions & feel an inner need to find peace and happiness in our lives. these falso beliefs and misconceptions are standing in our way. sometimes sublimnal messages are sent thru our brains that reinforce our faulty thinking. sometimes what we are feeling is because of an unconscious thought or problem that is bothering us.
 
following through the steps in the article to the left is highly suggested by this ex-night eater. although i am not a professional, it's still an advantage to have been a night eater and to have overcome it. while i also believe that night eating, just like alcoholism, is a habit that lies in wait, for us to weaken and re-establish its parameters in some crisis or unnerving situation in our lives, i also believe that being vigilent in recognizing how you are feeling and coping immediately in a positive manner can keep it at bay.
 
also read the article on the right - "a body craves," below. it's an awesome understanding of some of our body's mysteries that pertain to our eating habits....
 
stand strong and check back to this page often for new articles and understanding!
 
peace & hopefulness to you all!!!!
Kathleen 

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Wait Until Dark — Night Eating Syndrome
Today’s Dietitian
By Mary Kaye Sawyer-Morse, PhD, RD

Vol. 6, No. 8, p. 28

This isn't your occasional midnight snack. Night eating syndrome is a persistent & troubling disturbance in eating patterns.

Night has fallen & the house is quiet except for the soft thump of a refrigerator door closing. Its light illuminates a dark, empty kitchen—except for the solitary eater. Kathy* doesn’t eat much during the day & instead finds herself eating most of her daily intake of food in the evening & late at night. She describes her life as stressful; Kathy is a single parent w/two children & a demanding job. She'd like to lose the 40 pounds she has gained over the past couple of years but is depressed & feels her situation is hopeless.

Defining Night Eating Syndrome
Kathy’s situation is typical of someone experiencing night eating syndrome (NES). NES may include morning anorexia w/evening hyperphagia & sleep disturbances but hasn't yet been formally defined as an eating disorder, according to Anorexia Nervosa & Related Eating Disorders, Inc.

The syndrome is thought to be caused by a combination of biological, genetic & emotional factors w/some research indicating that the night eater may be suffering from a failure of the body to respond appropriately to stress.1

The signs & symptoms of NES include the following:

  • Not feeling hungry in the morning. Typically the person has little or no appetite for breakfast & delays the first meal for several hours after waking.
  • Overeating in the evening. In contrast to a lack of appetite in the morning, the person consumes more than 1/2 of his or her daily food intake after dinner but before breakfast & often has more food after dinner than during that meal.
  • Difficulty falling asleep. The individual finds it hard to fall asleep. He or she may toss & turn for some time & feel a need to eat something just before going to bed to help him or her fall asleep faster.
  • Waking at night & eating. The person may wake at least once during the night & find it necessary to eat before being able to fall asleep again.
  • The eating produces feelings of guilt & shame, not enjoyment.
  • Feeling depressed. In addition to eating & sleeping problems, the individual may feel sad or disconsolate. Especially at night, the individual may be moody, tense, anxious, or agitated.

Not familiar with NES? Not surprising. While the syndrome was first described in 1955, it frequently goes unrecognized by healthcare professionals. NES isn't simply bad habits.

As stated above, it includes disordered eating & sleep & mood disorders. And it doesn’t only occur among people who are obese - until recently, that was the widespread supposition.

Interestingly, Marshall et al noted in their recent study findings that NES also occurs among nonobese persons.2

The Consequences
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vereating resulting from NES can lead to weight gain & a variety of associated health conditions. It's estimated that between 9% & 15% of individuals seen in weight treatment programs are suffering from NES.3

This percentage increases to almost 30% for those severely overweight (100-plus pounds) & includes individuals who have been evaluated for surgical treatment for obesity.4

In addition to weight-related health issues - type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, arthritis & heart disease - daytime sleepiness can be a very real problem. Excessive sleepiness can affect overall concentration & the ability to perform everyday activities.

Another common problem among night eaters is depression. Some sufferers complain of long-term struggles w/feeling sad. Studies conducted at the University of Pennsylvania indicate that approximately 45% of NES participants had experienced a major depressive episode at some point in their lives.5

Stress is yet another issue. Life stress events are frequently associated w/the onset of night eating. Allison et al noted that up to 75% of sufferers describe how a specific stressful event played a role in either the initiation or continuation of NES.5

Night Eating Patterns
NES
can assume a number of different forms or patterns. The authors of the book Overcoming Night Eating Syndrome: A Step-By-Step Guide to Breaking the Cycle discuss 4 different types of
night eaters:

  • the compelled evening & nighttime overeater
  • the anxious/agitated night eater
  • the cravings night eater
  • the all-or-nothing belief about sleep night eater.6

The compelled evening & nighttime overeater is described as someone who doesn’t get up to eat in the middle of the night but does consume most of his or her calories in the evening & nighttime.

Often, the individual will stay up late & continue eating after the evening meal.

In contrast, the anxious/agitated night eater wakes up at night plagued w/anxiety-provoking thoughts that create stress & agitation.

For this type of eater, the physical agitation directs his or her to food as a means to calm down.

The cravings night eater experiences overwhelming food cravings. For this individual, eating a certain food is the primary goal, not so much whether or not it will help facilitate sleep. After having the desired food, he or she will frequently experience remorse, guilt, & even physical distress.

Finally, the 4th type of night eater - described as the all-or-nothing belief about sleep night eater - is concerned about not getting enough sleep. In this pattern, the person is focused on sleep, not food.

When the person wakes up in the middle of the night, he or she uses food as a means to help get back to sleep w/the belief that eating will help him or her relax & thus aid in achieving better sleep.

Making the Connection
Regardless of the night eating pattern, finding the connection between thoughts & resulting behavior is key. In other words, while eating at night may appear to be automatic, it has somehow become embedded in the nightly behavior routine.

By exploring the links in the behavior chain, a person is able to see how one response produces the stimulus for the next response. An example of a chain would be waking up at night, looking at the clock & becoming anxious about not getting enough sleep, getting out of bed, going to the refrigerator, choosing to have something to eat, feeling calmer & sleepier & going back to bed.

The goal is to become aware of the chain components & begin to break them. Changing behavior can be difficult. Keeping a journal can be an important tool to help discover these connections. At the beginning of this process, the person may feel he or she has limited ability to control food choices.

The first step in behavior change is raising the level of awareness of the behavior. In other words, a person w/increased awareness may be able to say,

“Isn’t it interesting that I always choose cookies, breads & cereals rather than salad or croutons when I eat in the middle of the night? I guess my behavior isn’t as automatic as I thought. I could choose other options.”

Managing the Midnight Munchies
It’s 1 am & Kathy is sitting at the kitchen table. She’s hungry & restless as she struggles w/a familiar internal dialogue:

  • “I can’t sleep if I’m hungry.”
  • “I’ve followed my diet all day & I need a treat.”
  • “I’ll only choose low-calorie, healthy foods. A little bit won’t hurt.”

Kathy might find it helpful to explore her reasons for eating - her behavior chain - & then choose the most healthful action.

She might:

  • Determine what she is really feeling & thinking & then decide what action would meet that need. i.e., if she isn't truly hungry, what is the reason she wants a snack?
  • Is it because a favorite food is in sight? If so, keeping the food out of the house might be an answer.
  • Or is it because she is lonely?

Then making plans to visit a friend could be part of the solution.

  • After assessing her reasons for wanting to eat, she could think of something else to do for 15 or 20 minutes (like reading, stretching, or writing a note to a friend). By allowing time between the food craving (thought) & actually eating, she may find that the craving has passed.
  • If her food cravings are still strong after waiting the brief time period, she could decide to have a small portion of the desired food or try a new, lower-calorie substitute.

Buying food in preportioned amounts or preportioning them once at home helps control overeating. By limiting the amount consumed late at night, she can wake up hungry in the morning & start the day w/a satisfying breakfast.

  • Add exercise to the evening schedule. A walk after dinner, water aerobics, or a Tai Chi class might help alleviate stress & promote more restful sleep as long as they're done early enough in the evening. Vigorous exercise in the late evening may actually increase sleeplessness.
  • Practice deep breathing. Diaphragmatic breathing exercises (breathing deeply with abdominal muscles) can be especially helpful in reducing anxiety & agitation. Deep, relaxed breathing also helps promote restful sleep.

Anne M. Fletcher, MS, RD (author of the Thin for Life books), suggests that since NES has probably existed for some time, it may be unrealistic to expect the individual to break it completely.

She notes that an evening snack (300 calories or less), if planned as part of the total day’s calories, can be part of healthful eating. Fletcher also recommends implementing a ritual or “meal-termination technique” - something that symbolizes the end of the meal.

This might be having a cup of favorite tea, a brief prayer of thanks, or a short walk after the evening meal. A ritual helps the individual transition from one behavior (eating) to another behavior (eg, rest, preparation for bed).

While new ideas are forthcoming to help manage NES (eg, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors), much of the answer rests in developing increased self-awareness & effective self-management tools & techniques.

One treatment approach is unlikely to meet the needs of every person experiencing night eating. Successful control of night eating comes thru the exploration of unique individual needs & stressors & finding multiple solutions for developing healthful eating.

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— Mary Kaye Sawyer-Morse, PhD, RD, professional speaker and author, is owner and education director of The Center for Success, a Texas-based company that provides keynotes, in-service training, and seminars to diverse industries. Her areas of expertise include life-work balance, creating behavior change, women’s health issues, and understanding nutrition/health research.

Resources
Weight and Eating Disorders Organizations
Academy for Eating Disorders
www.aedweb.org
The academy is an international organization w/members from the research & clinical community. They publish the International Journal of Eating Disorders.

Anorexia Nervosa & Related Eating Disorders, Inc. (ANRED)
www.anred.com
ANRED is a not-for-profit organization that has included the definition for NES on its Web site. ANRED provides information about many aspects of eating & weight disorders.

North American Association for the Study of Obesity
www.naaso.org
This organization publishes the journal Obesity Research. The Web site provides helpful information about obesity & related problems.

Promoting Restful Sleep
National Center on Sleep Disorders
www.nhlbi.nih.gov/about/ncsdr/
This site provides information regarding ongoing research into sleep disorders. It also lists resources for the public.

National Sleep Foundation
www.sleepfoundation.org
This foundation provides information about problems w/sleeping & has an easy-to-use guide to sleep services nationwide.

Help With Stress
The National Institute for Occupational Safety & Health (NIOSH)
www.cdc.gov/niosh/stresswk.html
NIOSH is the federal agency responsible for conducting research & making recommendations for the prevention of work-related illness & injury (including stress-related problems).

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"Unhealthy" foods.
Replace these foods by fruits or vegetables as often as you can. Your body will function better & you'll have more energy.
 
Wrong food categories
  • Animal food;