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How Sleep Works
by Marshall Brain
Sleep is one of those funny things about being
a human being, you just have to do it. Have you ever wondered why?
What about the crazy dreams, like the one where
a bad person is chasing you & you can't run or yell. Does that make any sense?
If you've ever wondered about why people have to sleep
or what causes dreams, then read on to find out all about sleep & what it does for you.

Characteristics of Sleep
We all know how sleep
looks, when we see someone sleeping, we recognize the following characteristics:
- If possible, the person will lie down to go to sleep.
- The person's eyes are closed.
- The person doesn't hear anything unless it's a loud noise.
- The person breathes in a slow, rhythmic pattern.
If sitting up, the person may
fall out of his or her chair as sleep deepens.
During sleep,
the person occasionally rolls over or rearranges his or her body. This happens approximately once or twice an hour. This may
be the body's way of making sure that no part of the body or skin has its circulation cut off for too long a period of time.


In addition
to these outward signs, the heart slows
down & the brain does some pretty funky things (we'll get to this later).
In other words, a sleeping person is unconscious to
most things happening in the environment. The biggest difference between someone who is asleep
& someone who has fainted or gone into a coma is the fact that a sleeping person can
be aroused if the stimulus is strong enough. If you shake the person, yell loudly or flash a bright light, a sleeping person will wake up.
As with any animal living in the wild, it just doesn't seem very smart to design in a
mandatory 8 hour period of near-total unconsciousness every day. Yet that's exactly what evolution has done. So there must
be a pretty good reason for it!


Sleep & the Brain
If you attach an electroencephalograph
to a person's head, you can record the person's brainwave activity. An awake & relaxed person generates alpha waves, which are consistent oscillations at about 10 cycles per second.
A person generates
beta waves, which are about twice as fast. During sleep, two slower patterns called theta waves & delta waves take over. Theta waves have oscillations in the range of 3.5 to
7 cycles per second & delta waves have oscillations of less than 3.5 cycles per second.
As a person falls
asleep & sleep deepens, the brainwave patterns slow down. The slower the brainwave patterns,
the deeper the sleep, a person deep in delta wave sleep
is hardest to wake up.


REM Sleep
At
several points during the night, something unexpected happens - rapid eye movement (REM) sleep occurs. Most people experience 3
to 5 intervals of REM sleep per night & brainwaves during this period speed up to awake
levels.
If
you ever watch a person or a dog experiencing REM sleep, you'll see their eyes flickering
back & forth rapidly. In many dogs & some people, arms, legs & facial muscles will twitch during REM sleep.
Periods
of sleep other than REM sleep are know as NREM (non-REM) sleep.
REM
sleep is when you dream. If you wake up a person during REM sleep, the person
can vividly recall dreams. If you wake up a person during NREM sleep, generally the person
will not be dreaming.
You must have both REM & NREM sleep to get a good night's sleep. A normal person will spend
about 25% of the night in REM sleep & the rest in NREM.
A REM session
- a dream - lasts 5 to 30 minutes.
Medicine can hamper
your ability to get a good night's sleep. Many medicines, including most sleeping medicines,
change the quality of sleep & the REM component of it.

When You Miss Some
Zzzzs...
One way to understand why we sleep is to look at what happens when we don't get enough:
- As you know if you've ever pulled an all-nighter, missing one night of sleep
isn't fatal. A person will generally be irritable during the next day & will either slow down (become tired easily)
or will be totally wired because of adrenalin.
- If a person misses 2 nights of sleep, it gets worse. Concentration is difficult &
attention span falls by the wayside. Mistakes increase.
- After 3 days, a person will start to hallucinate & clear thinking is impossible. With continued wakefulness a person can lose grasp of reality. Rats forced to stay awake continuously will
eventually die, proving that sleep is essential.
A person
who gets just a few hours of sleep per night can experience many of the same problems over
time.
Two other things are known to happen during sleep.
Growth hormone in children is secreted during sleep & chemicals important to
the immune system are secreted during sleep.
You can become more prone to disease if you don't get enough sleep & a child's sleep can be stunted by sleep deprivation.
But the question remains - why do we need to sleep? Let's take a look at some of the possible reasons.

Why Sleep?
No one really knows why we sleep. But, there are all kinds of theories, including these:
- Sleep gives the body
a chance to repair muscles & other tissues, replace
aging or dead cells, etc.
- Sleep gives the brain
a chance to organize & archive memories. Dreams are thought by some to be part of this process.
- Sleep lowers our energy consumption, so we need 3 meals a day rather than 4 or 5. Since we can't do anything in the dark anyway, we might as well "turn off" & save the energy.
- According
to ScienceNewsOnline: Napless cats awaken interest in adenosine, sleep may be a way of recharging the brain, using adenosine
as a signal that the brain needs to rest:
"Since adenosine secretion reflects brain cell activity, rising concentrations of this chemical may be how the organ
gauges that it has been burning up its energy reserves & needs to shut down for a while." Adenosine levels in the brain rise during wakefulness & decline during sleep.
What
we all know is that with a good night's sleep, everything looks & feels better
in the morning. Both the brain & the body are refreshed & ready for a new day.

Dreams
Why
do we have such crazy, kooky dreams? Why do we dream at all for that matter? According to Joel Achenbach in his book Why Things Are:
The brain creates dreams thru random
electrical activity. Random is the key word here. About every 90 minutes the brain stem sends electrical impulses
throughout the brain, in no particular order or fashion.
The analytic portion of the brain
- the forebrain - then desperately tries to make sense of these signals. It's like looking at a Rorschach test, a random splash of ink on paper. The only way
of comprehending it is by viewing the dream (or the inkblot) metaphorically,
symbolically, since there's no literal message.
This doesn't mean that dreams are
meaningless or should be ignored. How our forebrains choose to "analyze" the random & discontinuous images may tell us something about ourselves, just
as what we see in an inkblot can be revelatory.
And perhaps there's a purpose
to the craziness: Our minds may be working on deep-seated problems thru these circuitous & less threatening metaphorical dreams.
Here are some other things
you may have noticed about your dreams:
- Dreams tell a story. They are like a TV show, with scenes, characters & props.
- Dreams are egocentric. They almost always
involve you.
- Dreams incorporate things that have happened to you recently.
They can also incorporate deep wishes & fears.
- A noise in the environment is often worked
in to a dream in some way, giving some credibility to the idea that dreams are simply the brain's response to random impulses.
- You usually can't control a dream - in fact, many dreams emphasize your lack of control by making it impossible to run or yell. (However, proponents of lucid dreaming try to help you gain control.)
Dreaming is important. In sleep experiments where a person is woken up every time he/she enters REM sleep, the person becomes increasingly impatient & uncomfortable over time.



A Final Word on Sleep
How Much Sleep Do I Need?
Most adult people seem to
need 7 to 9 hours of sleep a night. This is an average & it's also subjective. You, i.e.,
probably know how much sleep you need in an average night to feel your best.
The amount of sleep you need decreases with age. A newborn baby might sleep 20 hours a day. By age 4, the average is
12 hours a day. By age 10, the average falls to 10 hours a day. Senior citizens can often get by with 6 or 7 hours a day.
Tips to Improve Your Sleep
- Exercise regularly. Exercise helps tire & relax your body.
- Don't consume caffeine after 4:00 p.m. or so. Avoid other stimulants like cigarettes as well.
- Avoid alcohol before bedtime. Alcohol disrupts the brain's normal patterns during sleep.
- Try to stay in a pattern with a regular bedtime & wakeup
time, even on weekends.



Trouble Sleeping? Insomnia Cures Are Here! - By Dave Turo-Shields, ACSW, LCSW
I yawn, stretch
my arms behind my head & stare at the ceiling. I've been in bed for a few minutes. Ahhh, the peaceful quiet all around. The room is dark. The kids are asleep. It's an expansive moment for my mind. My mind seems to fill the entire
room.
Okay, it's been 20 minutes now. The novel meditative moment has passed. Now my mind seems to be filling up like a bowl that's been left outside in a torrential downpour. I can't seem
to slow down or empty out my mind. So many things to think about, not the least of which is why in tarnation can't I fall asleep?
I'm tired, but
can't sleep. I begin to feel agitated & become physically restless. I turn this way... I turn that way. I cross
& uncross my legs. I lay on my stomach, side & back. Each passing moment lends itself to increased anger & frustration.
Now my mind has jumped
ahead to tomorrow, lining up all those things I have to accomplish knowing that I'll only do so by dragging this haggard,
exhausted & fatigued body around for the entire day.
This process goes deeply
into the night.
Any of that sound familiar?
Recent
estimates indicate that approximately 25 million Americans suffer from chronic insomnia.
Some reasons for insomnia include:
1. Restless Leg Syndrome 2. Circadian Rhythm Disorders 3. Depression 4. Alcohol & other
drug abuse 5. Life changes &/or accumulation of life stressors 6. Anxiety 7. Sleep Apnea
You should consult with your physician in order to determine the exact cause of your sleep problems.
He/she may:
-
order a sleep study
-
give you a depression screen
-
check social stressors
-
order a blood panel to check for vitamin &
mineral deficiencies
-
suggest you stop drinking
-
give an anxiety scale or any number of interventions
to identify a cause
-
get you focused on appropriate
solutions
In the meantime
here are a few "Do's & Don'ts" on how to reclaim your beauty sleep.
1. When you lay down to sleep, deepen & lengthen your breathing patterns
- shoot for 5 second inhales & 5 second exhales.
You'll be taking
6 breathes per minute. This takes some practice but works nicely.
2. Take a deep
breath & hold it. While holding your breathe, tense up the muscles throughout your entire body & hold both for 30
seconds.
Exhale completely
& relax. Take several relaxed breathes & repeat 3 times.
3. Choose any relaxing color
(blue, green, yellow, etc). Place your hands on your stomach & imagine
that you're expanding a colored balloon in your stomach.
Exhale an insomnia/anxiety
color (red, black, etc) thru your mouth. Continue this for 5-10-50 times,
whatever it takes.
It's impossible
to focus on your body/breath while entertaining thoughts.
4. Take a hot shower or bath before bed, or get up & do so if you're unable to fall asleep within 15 minutes.
5. Take some sleep
food for the brain. Before going to bed eat 1 oz. of protein, 1 oz. of cheese & 5 grapes or the equivalent.
6. Get out of bed if you haven't fallen asleep within 15 minutes.
The brain is quite easily programmed. I don't want your brain to associate "bed" with "awake."
7. Once you're out of bed don't watch TV, get on the computer, listen to stimulating music, turn on a bunch
of lights or do anything else that stimulates your brain into high gear.
8. Once
out of bed do sit quietly, meditate on emptying the mind, listen to quiet, soothing music or do some "light" reading.
The research shows
that deep meditation is as restorative as sleep & takes less time than sleeping for 8 hours.
9. Purchase a Brain Entrainment CD & some ear buds (they're the
most comfortable to sleep on).
Make sure the CD
is designed for sleep. I won't go into all the scientific details here. Just know that the
brain needs to be in delta wave state 60 minutes for you to wake up feeling fresh.
My favorite is
"Sleeping Through The Rain" by a company you can find at http://www.hemi-sync.com/.
Don't try this
on just a boom box. The ear buds are very important to make this work.
10. Make
sure your bedroom is dark. Lights out!
11. Exercise regularly. Exercise does a fantastic job of regulating sleep cycles. The only catch here is don't exercise within
2 hours of bedtime, as this can activate mind & body systems that'll keep you awake.
12.
Drink Chamomile Tea an hour before bedtime & take Valerian root with it. If you open up your first bottle of Valerian
root & it smells like rotten socks, don't throw it away, it's supposed to smell like that! Can you believe it!? ;-)
13. If worse comes to worst, consult a doctor. There are many effective medications used for sleep which can be prescribed by your doctor.
Some of these include
Ambien, Temazepam, Sonata, Remeron, Benadryl (non- prescription), Melatonin (Don't take this if you have Seasonal Affective Disorder) Trazadone & others.
14. Stay away from alcohol as a sleep aid. Many will argue that
alcohol gets them to sleep, but brain wave studies show that once asleep, an individual
doesn't reach the restorative level of sleep that results in feeling well rested in the
morning.
Too many sleepless nights can lead to
what feels like a psychotic break, so don't push yourself over the edge.
Good self care is so important. After just 2 nights without sleep, intervention is necessary!
Please take care
of yourself. A great night's sleep after not sleeping well
for a long time can be an absolutely wonderful gift to give yourself.
I welcome you to more restful nights!
Author: Dave Turo-Shields, ACSW, LCSW Email: mailto:editor@overcoming-depression.com copyright:
by Dave Turo-Shields, ACSW, LCSW web Address: http://www.Overcoming-Depression.com



Power Naps - What Most People
Don't Know About Naps - By Kacper Postawski
One of the biggest questions I get asked
all the time is - "Are naps good for you? Or bad? I've heard both sides of the story." I'd like to settle this argument once
and for all right here, and reveal to you how you can properly manage your sleep to create an abundance of energy in your
life, with LESS sleep.
Yes, naps are VERY good for you, IF you understand how the sleep system works, and you know
how to nap PROPERLY.
In my "Powerful Sleep¨ course I teach people how to properly understand their sleep system, circadian
rhythm, light exposure & how it affects their inner sleep system. While we can't get in this article, here's what
is true:
Most people don't realize that sleep is actually quite a complex & fascinating inner system.
When we're sleeping, we're not just dead
zombies off in an unknown universe. Your inner sleep system is a mechanism which follows specific time periods & stages
to energize your body.
So how do you nap properly?
You take what are commonly referred to as "Power Naps," or
what I usually refer to as "Stage 2 limited naps."
You see, when you sleep you go thru what are called "sleep stages,¨
there are 5 stages in total.
The first two stages, Stage 1 & 2
are your "Light Sleep." It's during this stage that we sleep "lightly," we're easily wakable & our circadian rhythm isn't
altered enough to create a disturbance in the sleep system.
The Energizing effects of Stage 1 and 2 sleeps are very
beneficial, just 10 minutes of sleeping in these stages can restore your energy to the point where you feel as if you slept
for 8 hours.
However, why do most people do more HARM than GOOD to themselves by napping?
It's simple, they
don't know about "deep sleep." Deep sleep comprises of all the other sleep stages. It's during deep sleep that your body undergoes
a MASSIVE physiological change, your body temperature, heart rate, respiration drops.
Your blood vessels dilate & all the
blood that is usually stored in your main organs during the day is channeled to your muscles to repair them.
If you
enter deep sleep during the day, your circadian rhythm, and your "inner sleep clock" (see link below for details) will be
altered & out of wack, often resulting in an in-balanced, weak sleep system & lower energy levels all together.
For
an average person it takes about 45-90 minutes to enter "deep sleep," this is why for an effective nap you MUST keep your
nap down to a MAXIMUM of 45 minutes.
Even 45 minutes is sometimes too much.
The most energizing naps are usually 10 to 20 minutes long.
If your naps last too long, you'll enter deep sleep. Waking
up from a deep sleep phase is more harmful to your sleep system & your energy levels than good!
You'll often feel lethargic, low on energy
& in that "zombie" state of mind.
If you use naps properly, you can boost your energy levels drastically &
lower your sleep time down drastically.
However, there are still 2 vital things you must know about napping in order
to make them super effective during your day, so that you're capable of lowering your sleep & boosting your energy.
1. You must know exactly what the best time during the day is to take your nap.
2. You must know what to do AFTER your
nap to speed up your body temperature rise.
Both these sleep secrets are exposed in the Powerful Sleep package, download
it today at: www.PowerfulSleep.com



Are You a Sleep Walking Zombie?
- By Royane Real
Do you get enough sleep? Chances are
you don’t. Many people living in modern industrial
societies suffer from a chronic & worsening sleep deficit.
Until a few decades ago, most people lived lives so very different from ours that we would scarcely recognize
them. Until fairly recently in human history the majority of people lived in small villages or on farms, not in big cities.
There
were no electric lights. There weren’t any faxes or e-mails. There was no Internet & no television. Once
the sun went down, most of the day’s activities came to an end.
People worked very
hard physically & only a very small minority had what we would call “white collar” jobs. And most people,
on average, slept 9 to 91/2 hours each night.
For most of us today, an average of
9 hours sleep each night is an impossible dream.
In our
very busy schedules, something has to give & quite often the choice many of us are making is to cut back on our
hours of sleep.
If you listen to, or read some
of the popular current guides to success, you'll usually be instructed to work hard, play hard, study hard, be more outgoing
& gain every advantage you can. The struggle to the top can be ruthless.
Why,
even the struggle to stay where you are & not to lose your place can be ruthless.
Where
do many of these success guides & gurus tell you to cut back?
Why,
on your hours of sleep? They’ll tell you that sleeping more than 5 or 6 hours a night
is a waste of time.
They’ll
tell you that the world is moving ahead while you're dozing & that you’ll never catch up if you indulge your
desire to sleep. If you snooze, you lose!
They’ll
tell you that you don’t really need those extra 2 or 3 hours of sleep each
night.
That
it’s just a bad habit you’ve developed. That it’s self-indulgent. That a
full night’s sleep is the booby prize for losers in the game of life.
Unfortunately,
this advice goes against thousand of years of human biology.
It’s true that
some of us really do need only 5 or six hours of sleep each night, but those people are
in a minority.
Most
of us require 7, 8, or even more hours of good quality sleep every night in order to function at our best intellectually,
physically & emotionally.
In sleep deprivation
experiments conducted on volunteers, it's been found that even a few days of sleep loss
produce a marked negative effect on a person’s mental abilities.
It becomes
much harder to focus mentally & to process information. Decisions take longer to make & are of poorer quality.
Learning
& remembering new information becomes more difficult & it becomes harder to recall information that was previously
learned. Creativity declines, while mistakes increase.
A person who hasn’t
had enough restorative sleep will have difficulty handling technical machinery. In addition, lack of sleep causes emotional
impairment & difficulty with mental processing.
As people
become more sleep deprived, they may experience more depression & mood swings. Tempers flare more often & sleep deprived
people become less cooperative with others.
Lack of sufficient sleep
is believed to have contributed to many well-known accidents, such as:
-
the explosion of the Challenger
space shuttle
-
the near meltdown at Three Mile
Island
-
the nuclear disaster at Chernobyl
It's
believed that lack of sleep contributed to poor decision making in each of these incidents, with disastrous results.
If you add to these examples the many hundreds of thousands of other accidents every
year caused by sleep deprivation, it becomes clear that cutting back on our sleep may not really be the solution for greater
productivity we're looking for.
If you're studying for important exams, you'll be
better off getting sufficient sleep the night before, rather than spending the whole night desperately trying to cram more
information into your head.
Remember
that your brain uses its sleeping hours to process the information of the day & to consolidate new memories. Cutting back
on sleep in order to study instead will interfere with this process.
How can
you tell if you're getting enough sleep? The ideal amount varies from person to person & it isn't always the same.
Ask yourself: When you wake up, do you feel refreshed, or is your body longing for more sleep?
Do you rely on a lot of coffee to get you thru the day?



Sleeplessness Clouds Moral Choices
People kept up all night had more trouble
weighing tough decisions, study found
HealthDay
By Robert Preidt
Friday,
March 2, 2007
FRIDAY, March 2 (HealthDay News) -- Too
little sleep makes tough moral decisions that much tougher, a new study suggests.
"Our results simply suggest
that when sleep deprived, individuals appear to be selectively slower in their deliberations about moral personal dilemmas
relative to other types of dilemmas," study author William D.S. Kilgore, of Walter Reed Army Institute of Research, said in
a prepared statement.
Previous research found that sleep deprivation can harm a person's physical health & emotional well-being. This study,
published in the March 1 issue of Sleep, concluded that lack of sleep also hinders
the ability to integrate emotion & cognition to guide moral judgments.
The study included 26 healthy
adults who were asked to judge the appropriateness of different responses to 3 types of moral dilemmas. They did this while fully rested & then did it again after they'd
been awake for 53 hours.
When sleep-deprived,
the study participants took much longer to respond to the moral dilemmas, suggesting that it was much more difficult for them
to decide on a course of action compared to when they were fully rested.
The findings don't indicate
that sleep deprivation actually lowers a person's moral standards, the researchers said.



The Effects of Sleep Deprivation
on Brain and Behavior
Sarah Ledoux
Sleep
deprivation is a commonplace occurrence in modern culture. Every day there seems to be twice as much work and half
as much time to complete it in. This results in either extended periods of wakefulness or a decrease in sleep over an extended
period of time.
While some people
may like to believe that they can train their bodies to not require as much sleep as they once did this belief is false (1). Sleep is needed to regenerate
certain parts of the body, especially the brain, so that it may continue to function optimally.
After periods of extended
wakefulness or reduced sleep neurons may begin to malfunction, visibly effecting
a person's behavior. Some organs, such as muscles, are able to regenerate even when a person is not
sleeping so long as they are resting.
This could involve lying
awake but relaxed within a quite environment. Even though cognitive functions might not seem necessary in this scenario
the brain, especially the cerebral cortex, is not able to rest but rather remains semi-alert in a state of "quiet readiness"
(2).
Certain stages of sleep are needed for the regeneration of neurons within the cerebral cortex while other stages
of sleep seem to be used for forming new memories and generating new synaptic connections. The effects of sleep deprivation
on behavior have been tested with relation to the presence of activity in different sections of the cerebral cortex.
The temporal lobe
of the cerebral cortex is associated with the processing of language. During verbal learning tests on subjects who are fully
rested functional magnetic resonance imaging scans show that this area of the brain is very active. However, in sleep deprived
subjects there is no activity within this region (3), (4), (5)
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