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We must all consider wisdom in our lives. Life is more than just "doing." There's much to be said about thinking, reflecting, learning, and most importantly mindfulness & awareness of living in the present moment.
 

Then an old man, a keeper of an inn, said, "Speak to us of Eating and Drinking."

And he said: Would that you could live on the fragrance of the earth, and like an air plant be sustained by the light. But since you must kill to eat, and rob the newly born of its mother's milk to quench your thirst, let it then be an act of worship, And let your board stand an altar on which the pure and the innocent of forest and plain are sacrificed for that which is purer and still more innocent in man.

When you kill a beast say to him in your heart: "By the same power that slays you, I too am slain; and I too shall be consumed. For the law that delivered you into my hand shall deliver me into a mightier hand. Your blood and my blood is naught but the sap that feeds the tree of heaven."

And when you crush an apple with your teeth, say to it in your heart: "Your seeds shall live in my body, And the buds of your tomorrow shall blossom in my heart, And your fragrance shall be my breath, And together we shall rejoice through all the seasons."

And in the autumn, when you gather the grapes of your vineyards for the winepress, say in your heart: "I too am a vineyard, and my fruit shall be gathered for the winepress, And like new wine I shall be kept in eternal vessels." And in winter, when you draw the wine, let there be in your heart a song for each cup; And let there be in the song a remembrance for the autumn days, and for the vineyard, and for the winepress.

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what is your lifestyle diet like?

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before doing anything else....
get rid of all the things in your kitchen that you like to eat at night...
throw it away...
don't buy it anymore....
just do it...
now...

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the reason i think examining your diet is important for night eaters.... ("diet" meaning what you're eating & when you're eating & the nutrition involved in the equation....)
 
as a night eater, myself, i found that i was starving myself all day long. from the information that i have received from the many night eaters that have visited here @ night eating, many have expressed the same symptom.
 
upon my first awakening in the night, it seemed as though i was ravenously hungry. if by chance i woke and i wasn't hungry, i still felt an incredible urge, just as though i was "starving to death," to get some food in my mouth.

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welcome to night eating!
 
Please read the following as it contains important information for optimal site navigation!

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If you haven't visited the homepage, you're missing out on some important info, so I'll just give you a "heads up" here!
 
You've reached "night eating," part of the emotional feelings network of sites. If you scroll down to the footer on this page, you'll see the complete listing of all the sites in the network!
 
All of the sites in the emotional feelings network of sites are linked together thru a very complete network of underlined link words. Anytime you see an underlined link word, if you should be interested in more information concerning that word, simply click on it & a new browser window will appear. The page that opens up will give you an entire page filled with information concerning the word of your interest.
 
the emotional feelings network of sites was designed like this because as an ex-night eater, I was also faced with many other life dysfunctions, mental illness I was unaware of, domestic violence, a lack of any positive self esteem & so much more....
 
As I began my recovery, I began to slowly discover how all of the subjects contained within the emotional feelings network of sites are connected to each other. Soon I also discovered that there's power in educating yourself about it all.
 
As you gain power thru your newly acquired knowledge, you begin to regain a sense of control. As you begin to feel better, you become stronger & you're more able to begin your own journey thru recovery & personal growth. Once you begin, you will see how the subjects contained within this network of sites really is... all pertinent information for you - as a night eater!
 
visit the homepage for a better understanding of what's contained within the emotional feelings network of sites!
 
thanks for stopping by.... i hope that something within the network will be of use to you today....
 
kathleen

it's a frightening thought....
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Why raiding the fridge at night is a bad idea

You can eat after dark without blowing your diet, but be careful

By Lisa C. Cohn, R.D.
MSNBC contributor / April 6, 2007
 

Judy, a 39-year-old suburban mother of 2 & a veteran dieter, was convinced that fasting after 7 p.m. would help give her back the body she had in college. But clocking calories left her feeling unsatisfied by bedtime.

Like many dieters, Judy fell for some magic rule such as "no eating after dark." But it's not so much when you eat as what & how much that really counts.

Sure, it's better to get most of your calories earlier in the day when you're most active. In general, you'll lose weight easier if you finish dinner earlier because you’ll have more time to burn off the calories.

Also, sleeping with a full stomach can promote weight gain because the food energy you just consumed will not be used (you burn fewer calories during sleep), so the fat will be stored.

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stay outta that fridge at night!!!

On top of that, going to sleep with a full stomach can promote:

 indigestion

labored breathing

 extra work for the heart....

You're also likely to not sleep as well & may feel physically uncomfortable.

But unless you hit the sack within 2 1/2 hours of sundown, you'll likely become hungry between dinnertime & bedtime. Most people start craving a snack about 3 hours after a meal.

It's OK to allow yourself a 100-150 calorie after-dinner snack — preferably something fresh or less processed, such as a dozen nuts & a small fruit, or a piece of low-fat cheese & a small bunch of grapes.

Some fresh herbs with dinner, or a handful of berries or 3 cups of popcorn can help you sleep thru the night better without ruining your diet.

Starving yourself after dusk can backfire by sending you desperately scrounging for snacks at midnight

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Late-night snacking should be avoided entirely - it's perhaps the worst culprit when it comes to weight gain. Most of nighttime snacking is simply overeating - eating not out of hunger, but more out of boredom, comfort & habit. 

And this type of eating can put you at risk for bingeing.  A recent report found that binge eating - eating a pint of ice cream & cookies after a full dinner, i.e., - is the most common eating disorder in the U.S.

Beyond that, eating high fat or sugary foods can also lead to a night-eating hangover, which is similar to a hangover caused by alcohol, but leaves you feeling foggy-brained & moody.

Sometimes, though, you have no choice - you simply aren't able to eat dinner until late. For those of you who exercise after work & generally start dinner after 8 p.m., choose a lighter meal, such as grilled fish or seafood with olive oil & fresh herbs, or a fresh salad with fruit for dessert. 

If your workouts are cardiovascular, add some beans to your salad for extra energy. Not replenishing your energy after exercising could leave you feeling as if you're starving & may contribute to difficulties sleeping.

Also, limiting your late-day carbohydrates to selections that contain more protein - & thus, longer-lasting energy - such as wild rice, beans & whole grains, is preferred over filling up on bread & pasta, which are more processed & will leave you less satisfied & hungrier in the long run.

In the end, Judy chucked her self-imposed dieting rule, started eating dinner in the early evening & allowed herself a 100-calorie snack later. The result? Judy had an easier time losing weight.

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Binge eating a common problem in U.S.

More prevalent disorder than anorexia & bulimia, Harvard survey finds

Associated Press/March 29, 2007

BOSTON - Frequent binge eating is the country’s most common eating disorder, far outpacing the better-known diet problems of anorexia & bulimia, according to a national survey.

Psychiatric researchers at Harvard University Medical School & its affiliate, McLean Psychiatric Hospital, have billed the study as the 1st national census of eating disorders. The results were published Thursday in the medical journal Biological Psychiatry.

The survey found that 3.5% of women & 2% of men suffer from binge eating, defined as bouts of uncontrolled eating, well past the point of being full, that occur at least twice a week.

The doctors diagnosed fewer than 1% of women & 0.3% of men with anorexia, a disorder where an exaggerated fear of weight gain causes undereating & malnourishment.

The study determined that 1.5% of women & 0.5% of men had bulimia, characterized by the “binge-purge” syndrome of overeating followed by vomiting.

McLean Hospital’s Dr. Harrison Pope, an author of the study, said binge eaters face severe risk of obesity & related diseases like diabetes, heart disease, stroke & certain cancers.

A binge eater, i.e., might eat a full dinner, then a quart of ice cream for dessert, followed by a bag of chips, without being able to stop, Pope said.

It’s a little bit analogous to something you hear from an alcoholic, when they might say, ‘Well, I wanted to have one drink,’ & they’ve had 12 drinks & they’re passed out on the floor,” he said in a conference call with reporters. “Even though they feel full, even though they feel disgusting & guilty, they can’t stop.”

Dr. James I. Hudson, the study’s lead author & a Harvard Medical School psychiatry professor, said binge eating deserves more recognition from health professionals.

These results argue that binge eating is common. It’s more common than both the other eating disorders combined & it’s strongly associated with obesity,” he said. “Taken together, these findings suggest that this is an eating disorder & should be treated as such.”

'Cause or symptom?'
Funding for the study came from several sources, including the National Institutes of Health, Eli Lilly & Co. & the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation. Hudson said the research team interviewed more than 9,000 people nationwide from 2001 to 2003 about their eating habits & psychological backgrounds.

The study probably underestimates the actual number of those with eating disorders, he said, because people are often ashamed to acknowledge their abnormal eating habits.

The survey also found that people struggle longer with binge eating - symptoms persist for an average of about 8 years compared to less than 2 years for anorexic patients, who are often young & may recover as they mature.

Bulimics suffer without cure for an average of roughly 8 years, according to the study.

Men & women between the ages of 18 & 29 were most likely to be diagnosed with an eating disorder, while people older than 60 had the lowest rates of eating problems.

The doctors said all 3 illnesses usually coincided with mood disorders like depression & anxiety.

A combination of the “cultural barrage” of images of rail-thin movie stars, ubiquitous fast-food advertising & genetic predisposition is usually the root of eating disorders, the study said.

Dr. B. Timothy Walsh, director of the eating disorders research unit at the New York State Psychiatric Hospital at Columbia University Medical Center, said the study confirms a widespread belief that the population of binge eaters is growing.

He said if binge eating is a cause of obesity, psychiatrists could give more effective treatment to many overweight people.

Everyone has a sense, whether from a casual inspection of people on Broadway or an empirical study, that there are a lot of problems with binge eating & overeating,” he said. “The question is, is it a cause or a symptom?”

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Nutritionist: Beware of the risk of "emotional eating"
By Lori Silverstein

For many people, food is an enemy they must face every day. Instead being governed by a simple biological need, such as the physical sensation of hunger, food intake can be ruled by a person's emotional state of being, said a University Health Center nutritionist.

Jane Jakubczak, a nutritionist at the health center who presented a lecture on "Emotional Eating" Wednesday, said 75% of overeating is caused by emotions. She also said many people restrict their eating in response to emotions.

"Often people use food to comfort themselves, relieve stress & to have something to do when they're bored," she said.

it's a frightening thought....

A personal note about what's written above....
I was stricken, after reading the paragraph above. how true is it in your life that when you're hurting, needy, sad - & because you're not coping well with those feelings & emotions you end up angry?
 
Being a night eater or having one of the other eating disorders or even those eating emotionally are intensely feeling something extreme - it's haunting - it's an overwhelming need to be soothed & most of us don't know what to do with that.
 
I'm wondering why those night eaters who are married or living with a significant other find themselves alone.... in the kitchen - eating uncontrollably instead of asking for help. I'm wondering why it's so difficult for night eaters to reach out & ask for soothing - encouragement from a spouse or significant other.
 
where is your spouse? where is your child? where is your partner? where is your friend? where are your family members?
 
Why do we expect so much of ourselves? Why do we think we must keep it a secret & turn to comforting ourselves?
 
What caused us to become so distanced from those who love us? Are we in such extreme inner turmoil & fearful for our future?
 
I believe, sincerely, that we can only handle so much alone, where is God? in our lives? Where are our loved ones?
 
be brave, state your need to your God or Higher Power, it'll be better for you in the long run...
 
kathleen

it's a frightening thought....
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Jakubczak said many people mistakenly use food to accommodate certain basic needs such as:

  • getting rest

  • being intellectually stimulated

However, she said, "food isn't going to supply any of that."

While many people use food in response to emotions like anger, frustration, loneliness & sadness, Jakubczak referred to stress, prevalent on college campuses, as the main cause of emotional eating.

"The biggest problem w/emotional eating is that people do it when they're stressed. And college campuses are overflowing w/ stress," she said.

Junior government & politics major Christine Davies said she often turned to food as a way of dealing w/stress.

"If I get stressed out, I need to focus my mind on something else," she said. "Eating is the easiest thing to do."

However, she said eating never truly eliminated her stress.

"A lot of times I didn't end up feeling better. Whatever stressed me out was usually still there," Davies said.

Senior Carrie Stewart, a health major, said when confronted w/stress, she used to respond by limiting her food intake.

"I had stress in my life & I couldn't get the grades I wanted, but I had my eating under control," she said.

Stewart said that while she knew restricting food intake wasn't right, she did it because it was one thing she could control.

"My parents had financial & other controls. But food was one thing my parents couldn't control, especially in college," Stewart said.

To avoid using food as an emotional remedy, Stewart began keeping a journal. She said writing has helped her become aware of her stress & control her emotional eating.

Kelly Burke, a junior psychology major, said she used to resort to food to end boredom, but has recently found a more positive & healthier response to this emotion.

"I've trained myself to use exercise to avoid emotional eating," she said. "When I would overeat, I would feel gross, but now when I exercise I feel healthier."

Jakubczak recommended several strategies to cope w/emotional eating. She said the best tool is to keep a food record.

"You should write down everything you ate & how you felt. Were you hungry or just bored? Were you happy or sad? Then, you'll start to see a pattern," she said.

She also suggested delaying eating until 30 minutes after a highly emotional situation. During this period, she said it's helpful to find distractions & other ways to deal w/emotions. Then, if after the 30 minutes, hunger hasn't subsided, she said eating is absolutely necessary.

You must give yourself time to think & decide if it is truly hunger," Jakubczak said.

if you're asking yourself, "what can i do to quit night eating?"
give yourself the gift of time - all through your day - to think & decide...
think about what's best for you, think about how important you are in your life, think about the fact that - you're worth the effort - to quit night eating....

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Breaking the Sugar Addiction
By Jamie Jefferson
 
Added sugar is in everything these days, from ketchup to salsa to soup. It’s everywhere, I suppose, because we have come to expect it to be.

And it’s not just the white stuff we need to worry about. “Refined carbohydrates,” such as white bread & white flour products, produce the same reaction in our bodies.

Researchers have linked sugar consumption to everything from cavities to wrinkly skin, as well as wide range of much more serious health problems.

Some research has been cited that says sugar hasn't been proven to be a direct cause to these health problems & may not even be directly linked to them, but when you consider that added sugar is basically non-nutritional calories, the lack of nutrition & obesity can cause health problems in themselves.

Sugar, some researchers say, can lead to the damage of healthy cells & can lessen the effectiveness of white blood cells, leading to a weakening of the immune system. Too much sugar means lots of empty calories, too, which can lead to obesity.
 
As any parent knows, when you fill up on sugar, you simply aren’t hungry for nutritious meals. And sugar can make you hyperactive & irritable, too, as it knocks your body out of whack.

When you eat sugar, your blood sugar spikes. So your body secretes insulin, which sends your blood sugar crashing. The result?
 
Irritability & fatigue. Plus, you’re hungry again & probably craving another hit of sugar & so the cycle repeats itself anew.

One of the nicest things you can do for your body (& your mood) is to reduce your intake of added sugars & refined carbohydrates.

What is the Daily Recommended Sugar Intake?

The World Health Organization recommends reducing your intake of added sugars to less than 10% of your total caloric intake. That means, if you eat 2,000 calories, you should eat less than 12 teaspoons of sugar each day.
 
The US Dept. of Agriculture also recommends limiting your consumption of added sugar to between 6 & 12 teaspoons of sugar each day, depending on your daily average caloric intake. (6 tsps. a day for people who eat 1,600 calories; 12 tsps if you eat 2,200 calories each day.)
 
Keep in mind that a single 12 oz. soft drink contains 10 tsps of sugar.

To find out how much sugar is in some of the items in your cupboards, look for Sugars (measured in grams) on the Nutrition Label. Then divide the number of grams by 4 to get the number of teaspoons.
 
So, 12 grams of sugar is 3 tsps of sugar. 16 grams of sugar is 4 tsps.

How to Break Your Sugar Addiction

So how do you start to reduce your sugar intake? Here are some tips.

Try decreasing your intake of added sugar gradually. It can be difficult to suddenly cut all added sugar & refined carbohydrates. Try taking a week-by-week approach.
 
One week, add less sugar to your morning coffee. Next week, replace your afternoon soda with bottled water. The following week, replace white bread with a whole grain alternative.
 
Before long, you'll find that the foods (& drinks) you used to love now taste sickeningly sweet. And you'll likely find it easier to keep your moods on an even keel, too.

Keep notes on your sugar intake in your journal or Daytimer.
 
How does decreasing your sugar levels impact your energy levels?
 
Your mood during the day?
 
Your ability to fall asleep at night?
 
When do sugar cravings hit?
 
It might be helpful to start with a Sugar Fast for a day or two. See how one day without added sugars affects you.

Make easy substitutions. Buy brown rice instead of white rice, i.e., Brown rice has a nice, nutty flavor & takes just a bit longer to cook.
 
The next time you go to the store, experiment with all kinds of whole grain alternatives. You might find some new family favorites.

Keep healthy snacks readily available & rely on a bit of protein in your snacks to keep your energy levels high. Keep a small bowl of nuts on the table, along with fresh fruits.
 
When you're hungry for a mid afternoon snack, opt for lean protein & complex carbs.
Indulge in moderation. If you're a chocoholic, treat yourself to a square of fine chocolate at the end of a long day. When the chocolate is quality, you won’t feel the need to have more & you’ll be more apt to take your time & savor it.
 
When you do indulge in a sugary snack, keep it small, eat it slowly & eat a bit of protein, too, to help moderate those blood sugar spikes & dips.

Dilute the fruit juice. If you or kids love fruit juice, try diluting it gradually to the point where you're just adding a splash to the top of water.

Become a sugar detective. You can start by knowing the alternate names for added sugars, often found in ingredients lists. These include any ingredient that ends in the suffix “-ose,” including:
  • sucrose
  • dextrose
  • fructose
  • lactose
  • polydextrose
  • maltose 
  • galactose
Also, look for the following:
  • corn syrup
  • high fructose corn syrup
  • honey
  • maple syrup
  • molasses
  • carob syrup
  • turbinado sugar
  • fruit juice concentrate
  • brown sugar
  • cane juice
  • cane sugar
  • evaporated cane juice
  • beet sugar 
  • sorbitol

Avoid replacing added sugar with artificial sweeteners. Your best bet is to gradually reduce your taste for sweet foods, not to replace them with chemical alternatives.

On ingredients lists, look for:
  • sucralose
  • saccharin
  • aspartame
  • acesulfame K 
  • neotame

Avoid the center of the supermarket as much as possible. That’s where most of the processed foods are shelved. Instead, shop the perimeter for healthy, raw foods.

If you have young kids, go to the grocery store by yourself. You may be less apt to come home with sugary treats. Plus, you can take more time to examine the labels for hidden sugar.

If your kids are grade school age or older, take them along & enlist their help as Sugar Detectives. Give them each a list of hidden sugars & artificial sweeteners & turn it into a game.

Carefully measure how much honey you put in your tea & how much sugar you put in your coffee. Aim to put in a bit less each day or each week until you're drinking it either unsweetened or with just a bit of sugar.

Buy items that aren't sweetened & add sugar only if you find that you need to. This will help you wean off the sugar gradually.

Steer clear of sugars for breakfast. When you start your day with a sugar blast & crash, you may find yourself in a vicious cycle for the remainder of the day.
 
Start your day with healthy lean protein & complex carbs. Try natural whole-grain breads & cereals for breakfast, along with a lowfat protein, such as skim milk, cottage cheese, or yogurt.

If you need to lose weight, consider a diet plan that focuses on reducing sugar intake. The Sugar Busters Diet Plan is probably the most well known. The idea of this diet is to reduce your intake of sugar & high starch carbohydrates, focusing instead on lean protein, low starch veggies & whole grain carbs, in order to lose weight.
 
Many of the low GI diets out there use this method, as well.
 
Be careful not to make sugar taboo in your household. With children, especially, when you swear off something completely, you run the risk of creating a mystique around the forbidden food.
 
Instead of running a completely sugar free household, make sure your children understand the effects that sugar can have on their bodies & their moods & then help them understand the beauty of moderation.
 
Encourage them to eat low fat protein & help them develop a taste for healthy whole grain carbs.
Focus on well balanced, nutritious diet, instead of simply swearing off all sugar. Your cravings will slowly & naturally fade once you gain a better understanding of why they're cropping up in the first place.

(This article is for informational purposes only. Please discuss any dietary changes with your doctor.)

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Change Your Eating Habits

Sensible eating doesn’t have to mean making a change in what you eat or how much – sometimes just how it’s prepared can make a big difference. From whole to skim, buttered to plain, deep-fried to baked, there are plenty of simple, healthy choices we can make. But the taste!
 
That awful chalky/cardboard-y/watered down just-plain-discouraging healthy version of the real thing… shouldn’t stop you from trying! You can retrain your taste buds & learn to love foods that are good for you.

Here are some tips to help you get from where you are to where you want to be:

Mix & match.
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